Saturday, October 3, 2015

My First full size quilt

It's 1981! I have a 2 yr. old and a new baby and I decide it is time to make my first full size quilt. I had made blocks to contribute to church quilts for our pastors, but had not made a quilt for our family. The journey began. First the pattern, which one? I knew starting with squares would be the easiest shape to use. There was no " online " searches in those days. Should I do 4 patch? Scrappy blocks? I didn't have any scraps except from baby clothes and I wanted to buy fabric. I search through magazines and books in the library and decided on the pattern - a double Irish Chain! Now the color choice....hmmm I love fall colors and so does my husband . I go to our local Piece Goods shop and buy beautiful calicoes in brown , rust, and tan. Muslin soft and off white will be the backing and
added to the front. Nap times and the evenings after my girls are in bed I begin. my first quilt. No rotary cutter just a pencil, a 3inch cardboard square, and scissors . After several weeks I have a box of over 3000 squares. Every line drawn , every cut gave me a sense of piece and a time if relaxing. The stress of the busy days would melt away. I had found my therapy, my passion! I drew the pattern out on quadrille paper and colored the blocks with my 2yr. old's color pencils.

Now to piece this together. My husband had bought me a Singer sewing machine when I became pregnant with our first child. I made all my maternity clothes, but this quilt , my first masterpiece would be hand pieced just as my grandmother had done. The piecing took over a year. Working on it in little snatches of stolen moments. My box of precious squares, knocked over many times, fabric flying began to have less small squares and more big squares as my quilt began to come together. My baby nursed, crawled, took her first steps , seasons passed and I stitched that quilt and it grew. The top was finally finished, the borders added and I help it out for my grandmother to see. It had grown into a king size quilt, bigger than our newlywed bed and I loved it! My grandmother smiled and praised my hand work but said, " Donna honey, why did you see this by hand ? You have a machine?" My response," Grandma , you made your quilts by Gand! I wanted to make mine the way you made yours!" My sweet Grandma Maggie laughed and informed me that she only did her sewing by hand because she didn't have a machine. " law girl! Use your machine! " thus was my last full sized hand pieced quilt. And I love it.

We moved out of our little trailer in my parents' yard and moved into our first home. Our home we still live in today. My husband joined an OB/GYN group and worked many long hours. We had a dining room, but no money for furniture so my husband made me a quilt frame and I set it up. Every once in awhile I would go in and add a few stitches or draw my feather circle pattern on the muslin and the girls and their new brother would play underneath and pretend all kinds of games while my quilt lay on that frame being more and more neglected. We finally bought dining room furniture and my quilt went into a closet and the frame was packed away into the storage building. Life went on, other projects made but my heart remembered my " first" and I longed to finish it.

1995 my Dr. told me I needed a hysterectomy! I'm only 35 years old! But the pain hand other symptoms were robbing me of a life I wanted to enjoy so July came and my uterus went. I had to recover for two weeks. What will I di for two weeks? My husband brought out my precious unfinished quilt and my girls and I sat together for two weeks and stitched on that quilt, talked, laughed, and watched old black and white movies. They discovered Cary Grant, Gregory Peck, Fred& Ginger, and the love of patchwork and Gand quilting. I have a treasure that spends its time hanging over a chair or coveting my bed. My nest is empty , but so full of memories of love, joy, sorrow, and time spent together and my first and favorite warm and cozy quilt made with love, excitement, and sharing.

Tuesday, March 24, 2015

No prayer is too small to take to God...Those things that concern me concern Him


Have you ever wanted to pray about something , but you think nah, it just isn't big enough to bother God with. I was so excited about this answered pray I just had to write about it to encourage whoever may read this ....



Several years ago my mother in law gave me this applique kit I wanted - Merry Merry Snowmen. I had played around with applique , but I wanted to improve my skills and since I love snowmen I thought this would be a good motivation.



I worked on it pretty hard , but soon found applique is not my " passion" and I put it away and worked on other things for awhile. 

At the start of the new year I decided to pull it out and start working on it and was determined that this was the year to finish this and move on to some other applique project 

I had the blocks that I had finished but I needed my box of applique thread , scissors, and embellishment. I looked in my sewing room and that box was no where to be found. I was really put out because I spent a whole day I had set aside to sew looking for that box. Finally I sat in the floor and started to pray, "Lord ! where is that box!" I even told my husband I was a grump because I couldn't find that box. 

I prayed for 3 weeks and as the days went by my prayers became more detailed. I went over and over in my mind praying , did I leave it on the plane from Switzerland when we went on vacation? Had I left in the Virginia mountains when my son got married last May? Had I left it in Pennsylvania when we had visited my daughter or in New Jersey when we went up for my father in law's 90th birthday... I just kept praying. I woke up at night thinking about it a prayed, I went through the day praying and came to wonder has my love of quitling outgrown my love for God! I asked God to forgive me if it had, but that I was thankful for quilting and all the years I have been able to have this craft in my life! 

Then one night I woke up thinking about that box and pleaded with God ," Please, just let me know where that box is even if I have left it on a plane and it is gone forever , Please just help me remeber. I got up quietly so as not to wake my husband , who had been very patient with my whinning about that box, and pulled out my laptop to look through pictures to see if the box was in any of them. 

Well, there it was in a picture of the weekend of our son's wedding so that eliminated leaving it on the vacation plane. Then it popped into my head that I had finished sewing some hexies and they were in that box. That was on the car trip home for my father in laws birthday party so I was beginning to remember where it wasn't , but where was it! 

I ordered new applique scissors , actually a bigger size than I had, and reorderd thread and  the embelishment kit . The company sent the wrong kit and said I could no longer get the one I needed. The new scissors came , but I still wanted my box! 


My sweet husband said we should drive up to our lake house and look and see if that box was there. I was sure I hadn't taken it up there , but it was worth a try. Our house is about an hour away and the weather was cold and rainy but we left on a Sat. morning and I prayed on the way up to the house.... You know the outcome.

There was my box! it was on a chair under some drapery material I had thrown on top of it.

At first I had felt so silly praying over a box, but when I found that box I was so happy and thankful and I could see that 3 weeks of praying had taught me an important lesson that I thought I already knew - Pray with out ceasing and pray over everything...and if it is big enough to bother me it is big enough to take to God and in His perfect time He answeres in a perfect way! 
So now I am finished with all the preparation, now on to the stitching! I may even finish this quilt this year!


Wednesday, January 28, 2015

The First!

I took my first quilting class in 1976.I was 17 and wanted to make something for my sheep farmer boy friend. It wasn't that great of a class. The teacher wanted us to make a star pattern pillow. The pillow is long gone, along with the boyfriend, but while cleaning up my sewing room I found the fabric from the project! Talk about a blast from the past. I still love this fabric! And I fell in love with patchwork quilting.

Sunday, September 25, 2011

A typical sunday

Phoebe 3

Judah 3

Adam 4 - the first

Samantha AKA Dumplin 1 + 5mos.

A usual Sunday. I teach a 1st grade Sunday School class in the church  I have attended all my life ( 52 soon to be 53 yrs ) After morning service , we are home for Sunday lunch with our kids and grand-kids. Sunday meal rules - no pots on the table, cloth napkins only, lots of laughter and conversation. Regular house rule - spills are never a cause for fussing. Comes in handy with a 3 and 1 yr old grandchild. Papa lays down to read, soon snoring is heard from our room, the afternoon was usually spent doing dishes, which I like to do by myself and then book reading and play, but lately I have wanted to nap too, but only a short power nap and then up to play. I have a cold and not feeling too well so no church for me tonight. 
A usual Sunday. I teach a 1st grade Sunday School class in the church  I have attended all my life ( 52 soon to be 53 yrs ) After morning service , we are home for Sunday lunch with our kids and grand-kids. Sunday meal rules - no pots on the table, cloth napkins only, lots of laughter and conversation. Regular house rule - spills are never a cause for fussing. Comes in handy with a 3 and 1 yr old grandchild. Papa lays down to read, soon snoring is heard from our room, the afternoon was usually spent doing dishes, which I like to do by myself and then book reading and play, but lately I have wanted to nap too, but only a short power nap and then up to play. I have a cold and not feeling too well so no church for me tonight.